We are all equal.

 We live in a society with norms and beliefs that shape various aspects of our lives, ranging from religion to marriage and beyond. Today, let's explore the differences and strengths between men and women.

During childhood, we develop habits and behaviors that shape our personalities. Girls often exhibit kindness and affection towards their environment. They tend to focus on taking good care of their friends, family, and toys. Many girls have a close bond with their fathers, while their relationships with their mothers may vary. This behavior can be partially explained by the Oedipus complex. Additionally, girls typically emulate their mothers' behaviors from a young age. A study has shown that, in the United States today, more women are receiving education than men. These qualities and skills, such as being cooperative and nurturing, are valuable assets that can benefit families and communities.

One notable strength I have observed when interacting with women is their exceptional ability to memorize and recall interconnected information. It is often joked that one should never argue with a woman because she will inevitably win by skillfully bringing up past discussions and events. I have personally experienced this during my marriage, where my wife adeptly recalled previous conversations to make her points. This ability to remember and connect details can be quite impressive.

The Family Proclamation to the World emphasizes that mothers are primarily responsible for nurturing their children. However, it also stresses the equal partnership between fathers and mothers in fulfilling these sacred responsibilities. This divine mission entrusted to all mothers is seen as a beautiful and appreciated aspect within the views of Latter-Day Saints. In contrast, some other Christian traditions may place blame on Eve for the suffering of all humanity. As someone raised by a loving and kind mother, I have witnessed firsthand the positive impact a great mother can have. My mother's loving discipline instilled in me valuable life skills and principles that I carry with me, enabling me to positively influence any environment I find myself in.

On the other hand, men often exhibit traits such as competitiveness, aggression, and a strong desire for recognition and merit. Boys tend to engage in physically demanding activities, such as sports, during their youth. In my culture, boys are taught from a young age how to become future husbands and providers for their families. For instance, there is an initiation ceremony called the Poro, practiced by a North tribe in the Ivory Coast. This ceremony takes place in the forest over a period of nine months. During this time, children are required to provide their own food and medicine while learning the art of medicine and survival skills. The experiences gained during this initiation help boys grow stronger and better prepared for their adult lives.

Research has shown that children who grow up without their fathers are more likely to experience divorce in their own marriages compared to those raised in two-parent households. The Family Proclamation teaches that fathers have a divine responsibility to preside over their families with love and righteousness while providing for their needs and protection. This divine appointment by God emphasizes the role of men in leading, providing for, and safeguarding their families. In my culture, young men are taught since their youth age ways to take care of their families by going to work with their dads and learning all about dad's job.

In conclusion, it is essential to recognize that both men and women have significant roles to play in building happy and strong families. They should love, support, and work together as a team in their relationships to ensure happiness and fulfillment for all.